Take a very simple example. Everyday we wake up in the morning and like it or not, we have already involve in this process of planning or thinking. We plan what we're going to have for our breakfast. Maybe a toast with peanut butter on it or maybe a bowl of cereal with fresh low fat milk along with a delicious hot chocolate.
But then, again life is full of suprise. Imagine suddenly, you open the cupboard and realize the food that you want are not there. Surely, this thing does not really matter, but imagine yourselves handling a bigger thing, a more crucial and more important thing. Doesn't it bother you?
Then always,I often see myself saying "Maybe this things happens for a reason"
People tend say life is like a wheel. At one moment you are at the top and then at another time you are at the bottom. The problem is about the transition; it is often too short. Without you even realize the world turn around. One minute you are standing firmly on the ground and then you fall.
It would be nice if we can see it coming. I like to know when I can get ready. As far as I'm concern I love to be in know. I have to be in know. I need to be in know! Whoever say that things that you don't know doesn't hurt you is a complete moron. Because for most of things that had been happened around me, not knowing is the worst feeling ever.
Am I rambling? Yes I think I am rambling. But what I try to say is: Try to put yourself into becoming an organizer. If not for an event for an organization, maybe simply for your life. It just like holding an eel. Just when you think you can make a decent, yummy dish from it, it slips through your finger. Even worse it stung you with its sting and left you trembling with pain and agony. Not to forget the undesriceable feeling of regret that you can't have it anymore. It hurt, it really does hurt.
That what life is; it is full of pain. There's been a lot of pain. Pain that we anesthetize it, embrace it, deny it, ignore it or fight through the hell out of it. But up to a point, you have to ride the pain because the fact is you can't outrun from it as life always makes more.
But still we can't forget or at least hope that there is always a silver lining over the horror black cloud. Yes,everybody does has good times and bad times. Hard times and easy times. Besides, if not because these hard times the good times or even the best times wouldn't seemed that good or that best.
In the end I always like to say that for we are planning but Allah (The God) is the greatest planner. Maybe gratitude is not about happiness. Maybe being grateful means recognizing what you have for what it's it is and admire the struggle it takes to be a simply human. Life is journey, it is short and this is surely not our final destination. At the end the fact that we still standing is reason enough to celebrate.
P/s: thank you for people that make the 'Malam BBQ and Sukeneka' wonderful and nice.
Don't miss understand this article does have nothing to do with it.
Also Happy Birthday to Khairul aka mozac aka legen. Lets fight our life to the fullest!Ya!
